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Incep acest articol prin a-mi cere scuze pentru lunga absenta din mediul online. Evident, ma refer aici si la blog. In special la el!
Am implinit 40 de ani. Da, da…multumesc de urari. 😉 Am avut musafiri, am dat petreceri, am iesit mult, ca sa simt ca s-a petrecut o schimbare. In realitate, nu-i nici o schimbare… Same old me. 🙂 Iata-ma dincolo de moment, am supravietuit, nu sunt in depresie, nu plang, nu-mi ling nici o rana, nu caut confirmari, complimente sau aprecieri. Culmea, pentru ca nu le mai caut, le primesc din belsug! Starea mea le atrage, iar ele imi alimenteaza starea. Un minunat cerc vicios din care nu vreau sa scap… 🙂

Cred ca inteleg de unde toata „agitatia”. V-am mai explicat ca niciodata nu m-am simtit mai bine in pielea mea precum ma simt de vreo doi ani incoace. Lucrul acesta pare ca nu se altereaza cu trecerea timpului, dimpotriva… Cu fiecare zi descopar noi aspecte ale personalitatii si stilului meu care ma incanta. Sunt un produs al educatiei solide oferite de familia mea, al celor 10 ani de comunism pe care i-am simtit din plin, dar si a mediului urbano-umano-virtual in care imi duc existenta. Da, am in egala masura contact cu oamenii si cu virtualul. Am reusit sa ajung la un echilibru din acest punct de vedere. Desi imi verific conturile la fiecare 10 minute, gasesc poate ore intregi in care sa vorbesc la telefon cu cei dragi, in care sa ma intalnesc cu prietenele sau cu alte persoane interesante pe care viata mi le-a scos in cale. Virtualul a devenit doar o simpla unealta, nu mai este o „realitate”.

Am realizat ca nu pot impaca pe toata lumea, ca mereu vor fi oameni care ma vor critica. Doamne ajuta! Perfectiunea plictiseste ingrozitor! 🙂 Mi-au trebuit peste 35 de ani sa realizez acest simplu fapt. Forma, poate fi ea facuta chiar dupa numarul de aur, fara fond este doar o cutie goala, insipida, incolora, inodora. O tii pe etajera pentru ca arata frumos, dar nu o deschizi niciodata. In timp, o inlocuiesti cu un alt obiect de decor… Tot ceea ce de-a lungul timpului am considerat a fi defect, acum…cand am implinit venerabila varsta de 40 de ani 😉 , a devenit calitate: punctualitatea, simtul umorului ai al autoironiei, tendinta de a ma imbraca prea „ciudat” pentru varsta mea, seriozitatea, mandria exagerata, perfectionismul, nasul pe sus, nasul in general… 🙂 , tendinta de a glumi in momentele tensionate ale vietii si de a face „pe proasta” in situatiile care nu-mi fac cinste.
Iata cateva dintre secretele mele… 🙂 😛

Tinuta acestui articol este o continuare a seriei: cum purtam hainele „de seara”/ „de ocazie” in tinute de zi. Fusta este de la Chic Wish si am achizitionat-o la un Shop my closet organizat de cateva bloggerite. Este o fusta de luat la ocazii, foarte elaborata, cu o tinuta si detalii aparte…pe care am reusit sa o incadrez (cu succes!) intr-un outfit de zi, numai bun de o plimbare „pe centru”. Poate ca nuantele deschise la culoare au ajutat putin demersului meu, dar va asigur ca pretiozitatea elementului vestimentar este greu de trecut cu vederea.
Stiti care a fost partea interesanta a acelei plimbari? Faptul ca am vazut mai multe doamne si domnisoare combinand cu succes elemente vestimentare de zi si de ocazie in cadrul unui singur ansamblu. Deci, se poate! 🙂

Don’t cease to amaze, girls!

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I start this article by apologizing for the long absence from the online environment. Obviously, I am referring here to the blog. On the other ones I was more present…
I turned 40 last week.. Yes, yes … thanks for the wishes. 😉 I had guests, I had parties, I went out a lot, to feel that there was a change. In fact, there is no change … Same old me. 🙂 Here I am, beyond the moment, I survived, I am not in depression, I do not cry, I do not lick any wounds, I do not seek confirmations, compliments or appreciations. The peak, because I no longer look for them, I receive all of those abundantly! My state attracts them, and they feed my state. A wonderful vicious circle from which I do not want to escape … 🙂

I think I understand where all the „agitation” comes from. I explained to you that I have never felt better in my skin as I have felt for about two years now. This thing seems not to change with the passage of time, on the contrary … Every day I discover new aspects of my personality and style that delight me. I am a product of the solid education offered by my family, of the 10 years of communism that I fully lived and felt, but also of the urban-human-virtual environments in which I live my life. Yes, I have contact with both people and the virtual space of the internet. I managed to reach a balance from this point of view. Although I check my accounts every 10 minutes, I find maybe hours to talk on the phone with my loved ones, in which I can meet friends or other interesting people that have been thrown in my way. The virtual has become just a tool, it is no longer a „reality”.

I realized that I cannot reconcile everyone, that there will always be people who will criticize me. God help! Perfection is terribly boring! 🙂 It took me over 35 years to realize this simple fact. The shape,may it be carved after the „golden number” itself, without substrate is just an empty box, tasteless, colorless, odorless. You keep it on the shelf because it looks nice, but you never open it. In time, you replace it with another decorative object … Everything that over time I considered to be a defect, now … as I turned 40 😉 , I discovered it is a quality: my horrific punctuality, the sense of humor and self-irony, the tendency to dress too „weird” for my age, my seriousness, exaggerated pride, perfectionism, nose up in the air, nose in general … 🙂 , tendency to joke in stressful moments of life and to play „stupid” in situations that do not honor me.
Here are some of my secrets … 🙂 😛

The outfit of this article is a continuation of the series: how we wear „evening” / „occasion” clothes in day by day outfits. The skirt is from Chic Wish and I bought it at a Shop my closet organized by some fellow style bloggers. It is a skirt to take to special occasions, very elaborate, with a special form and details … which I managed to fit (successfully!) in a day outfit, perfect for a walk „in the center”. Maybe the light shades helped a little in my approach, but I assure you that the preciousness of this particular skirt is difficult to overlook.
Do you know what the exciting part of that ride was? The fact that I saw several ladies successfully combining all kind of evening/ occasion/ day elements in just one outfit. So it’s possible! 🙂

Don’t cease to amaze, girls!