In dimineata aceasta m-am jucat putin. Probabil imi este dor de baietii mei care, fericitii, inca bat „maidanele” prin Constanta. M-am bucurat enorm sa aud ca si-au facut prieteni noi si ca stau in fata blocului pana la ore tarzii. La varsta lor fiind, exact asa am facut si eu. De fapt, cam toti cei de varsta mea, plus sau minus 10 ani, am facut asa.. si iata-ne ce destepti si frumosi am ajuns! 🙂 😉  Probabil impinsa de o nevoie launtrica de simetrie si oglindire, iata-ma-s la 7 dimineata pe terenul de joaca. Singura ce-i drept… (Doamne ajuta, ca daca erau copii pe acolo…nu aveam tupeu sa imi fac poze. M-as fi simtit ca si cum le pangaream jocul.) Nu este prima data cand imi fac poze la un loc de joaca, in episodul „Meli Melo goes playing”, care a fost si prima mea colaborare cu Elena, tot de joaca mi-a ars. 🙂

Cochetez de ceva vreme, din punct de vedere stilistic, cu tendinta de a mixa piese de facturi complet diferite in cadrul aceleiasi tinute. Spre exemplu, in tinuta de astazi port niste pantaloni „palazzo” din matase, extrem de eleganti, la o bustiera si pantofi sport, 2 genti 😮 , una din piele lacuita si una din panza si o palarie masculina. Pe buna dreptate, nu este nici o legatura intre ele, eventual o potrivire cromatica. Oricum, v-am mai dat acest pont si cu alta ocazie, dar il mai punctez si aci: pentru ca o compozitie sa fie desavarsita, ea trebuie sa contina 5% rosu. (Din „Studiul formei” citire, un curs din cadrul facultatii de arhitectura 🙂 ). Rezultatul? Nu arat nici elegant, nici sportiv, nici masculin. Dar arat totusi cumva… 🙂 modern! Daca acum 5 ani mi-ar fi spus cineva ca o sa ajung la asemenea combinatii vestimentare, as fi zambit tamp. Perioade lungi de timp m-am luptat cu prejudecati de ordin stilistic, din cauza carora nu prea ma aventuram „outside the box”, dar ma bucur ca anii mi-au adus in prim plan latura asta mai „freeminded”. Important este sa-ti asumi ceea ce porti, pana la urma reprezinta cine esti tu in acest moment. Si ce daca zambesc ironic cei din jur? Ce daca isi dau coate? Circula un citat pe internet din filmul Doctor House, pe care pur si simplu il „respir” prin toti porii : „If nobody hates you today, you are doing something wrong.” 🙂 Ok, recunosc, suna usor exagerat in aceasta forma. 🙂 Eu l-as adapta astfel: If nobody is talking about you today, you just died. 🙂 😛  Daca porti ceea ce spun ceilalti ca e bine sa porti, fara sa te identifici cu acel stil, ajungi sa te pierzi in multime.

Nu vreau sa mai lungesc discursul, cred ca v-ati dat seama despre ce a fost aceasta postare. Eu incurajez experimentarea. Iar cand experimentam, sa aveti in vedere ca este normal sa mai si gresim, nimeni nu s-a nascut profesor. 🙂 Important este sa nu renuntam. Sunt constienta ca noi, „scriitorasii” astia vizeji din mediul online, suntem chiar si intr-o infima masura, influentatori (m-am uitat in dex, exista… 🙂 ). Deci, consider ca este important sa incurajam o „eliberarea stilistica” intr-u diversificare si descoperire de noi valente ale frumosului. Pup la voi tare si apasat! 🙂


This morning I played a little. Probably I miss my boys who, happily, still „breath” the air of Constanta. I was glad to hear that they made new friends and  they play together in front of the block until late hours. At their age, that’s what I did also. In fact, people my age, give or take 10 years, we all did that … and here we are now, years later, all smart and beautiful! 🙂 😉 Probably pushed by an inner need for symmetry and mirroring, here I am at 7am on the playground. Alone, of course … (God help, if there were children playing there … I couldn’t have taken pictures of myself. I would have feeled like I was „messing” their game up). It’s not the first time I take pictures on a playground, in the episode „Meli Melo goes playing”, which was my first collaboration with Elena, I had the same playful mood. 🙂

I have been „fighting” for some time now, a tendency to mix completely different pieces within the same outfit. For example, in today’s outfit, I wear a very elegant silk skirt-pants to a spotrs bra and shoes, two bags :o, a lacquered leather bad and a canvas bag, also a masculine hat. There is no connection between them, possibly only a chromatic matching. Anyway, I gave you this particular tip on another occasion, but I also point it out now: for a composition to be perfect, it must contain 5% red. (From the „Study of Form”, a course from the university of architecture 🙂 ). The result? I do not look neither elegant nor sporty or masculin. But I still look somehow … 🙂 modernish! If 5 years ago someone would have told me that I would get to such clothing combinations, I would have smiled at them. For long periods of time I have struggled with stylistic prejudices, for which I did not venture outside the box, but I am glad that the years have brought me to the form of this „freeminded” person I am now. It is important to assume what you wear, after all, it is who you are at this moment. And what if they smile around you? What if they give you strange looks? I saw in internet a quote from Doctor House movie, which I simply „breath” through all the pores: „If nobody hates you today, you are doing something wrong.” 🙂 Ok, I admit, sounds slightly exaggerated in this form. 🙂 I would adapt it as follows: If you nobody talks about you today, you just died. :): P If you wear what others say is’t good to wear, without identifying yourself with that style, you get lost in the crowd.

I do not want to extend the speech, I think you have figured out what this post is about. I encourage experimentation. And when we are experimenting, keep in mind that it’s normal to make mistakes, no one was born a teacher. 🙂 It’s important not to quit. I am aware that we, the „writers” from the online environement, we are influencers, even if in a very small amont. So, I think it is important to encourage a „stylistic release” for the diversification and discovery of new valences of beauty. Kiss you all hard and pressed! 🙂

I am wearing

Glamorous palazzo pants bought at Peek&Cloppenburg, similar here

Similar bustier here , you can than write whatever message you want on it 🙂

Lacoste shoes, similar here

Cristhellen B. red leather clutch weared at the waist

Latitude 9 canvas bag